Yes that goes for me too!
Too often we would rather complain than do something about the various unhappy situations we are in. Great advice can be given but the person receiving it is not listening coz he/she is too busy being self-absorbed and whingeing.
As we start a new year, I think the quote by Maya Angelou offers great advice :
If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.
Maya Angelou
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